A Christmas message for Wanstead

The Reverend Elizabeth Horwell of Christ Church and St Mary’s, Wanstead, writes:

“Christmas is for children” How often have you heard that phrase? What does it mean?

“Father Christmas is for children” – I can understand that! For children Father Christmas is magical…. and as they grow older they pester and pester to know if he’s real or not. I remember it well with my own daughter Catherine. Eventually I started thinking “Maybe I should tell her? She’s obviously guessed anyway. ”

So I did…. And, guess what! She burst into tears. She didn’t want to know that He wasn’t real – what she really wanted was to know that the magic was true. And I think that in many of us there is the desire for the magic of Father Christmas to be real – otherwise the story of the Miracle on 34th Street wouldn’t be so popular. And let’s face it in that film we’re all rooting for the courts to find Father Christmas real! We long for Santa Claus to give the child the things she’s asked for – her mother to get married, the new house to live in as a proper family and a baby brother or sister. Father Christmas is magic – he takes us to a different and better world in this night of the year.

And yet – isn’t the real story of Christmas even more magical, even more amazing when you stop to think about it. Father Christmas makes magic work on only one night of the year; and only really for the world’s privileged children, those whose parents can afford to realise the story for their children. The magic comes in material things – toys, longed for maybe, but probably the result of fleeting desire rather than deep longing or need.
But God, the creator of our whole glorious creation, did something that first Christmas designed to meet the very deepest longings and needs within every human being: designed to work for all people across the world, poor as well as rich (maybe poor even more than the rich!), vulnerable as well as strong, socially unaccepted as well as the ‘in-crowd’.

For God longed so much to give the best of his love to his created beings, that at that first Christmas he did what no other God has ever done in the history of the world. He chose to come to earth and live among us – to “pitch his tent in this world” (as some translations of John’s gospel have it).
This kingly God, all-powerful (omnipotent), all-wise (omniscient), present everywhere (omni-present), came to us not as the God that he actually is but as a human like us – in the guise of a small, vulnerable and dependent baby.

This kingly God chose to come not to a rich palace with servants to do his bidding but to the cold and smelly uncomfortableness of an animal’s stable with only coarse straw underfoot.

This kingly God chose not to surround himself with the rich and powerful (though it’s true that eventually the wise men discovered his presence and came hundreds of miles to visit him – but that was much later). No, in the first few days God the baby’s only visitors – the people whom God told his good news and trusted to convey that news to the rest of the world – were some shepherds outside Bethlehem. And let me tell you that shepherds in those times were not well-regarded – we’re talking social misfits here, social outcasts. In those days you required two witnesses to prove something in a court of law – but two groups of people were not considered good enough to act as witnesses – women (still working on that one in the Anglican Church!) and shepherds! Shepherds were right at the bottom of the pecking order; and I think it shows God’s amazing sense of humour that when he arrives at last on this planet after thousands of years of planning – he reveals himself to…. shepherds!

God, in the guise of a small vulnerable baby comes to us among the straw. And what is straw exactly? It’s just the dry stalk of a cereal plant after the nutrients have been removed – it’s the waste product, the end-product, zero worth.

Jesus comes to birth in the straw of the stable and Jesus comes to us in the straw of our lives – he comes alongside us and shares with us at our most vulnerable and weakest moments. Of course he comes and shares our celebrations too. But in the gospel stories Jesus’ compassion is most deeply felt for those who are unable to help themselves, those whom others find it difficult to love, those who feel unloved and unlovable. Jesus comes and he doesn’t promise to wave a magic wand and make things better; he doesn’t promise that life will always be wonderful (he was human, he knows it isn’t!) What he promises is that he will be alongside us, come what may – even when we make mistakes and even when we get things badly wrong and are ashamed – and when we are right at our lowest point – then he doesn’t just walk alongside us but he carries us: our God lifting us up into his arms to bear the weight of our sadness and pain and loneliness and injustice.

And this God, I believe, has the power to transform us – not just for one night, but for all time – into people who, because we glimpse his love for us, suddenly get a glimpse of the world as God sees it and we long to help him to make others feel loved too. God transforms us so that our longings are not for the fripperies of material gifts with the short term happiness they bring – but for the joy that only comes from sharing, from giving some part of ourselves to helping others; the sense of contentment that being part of a loving and supportive community brings. God longs to transform you and me to be part of his team – and if you open yourself to his love for you even by a tiny amount, then he can bring his magic into your life not just on this night but for always. Even if we only love with one millionth of the love that God has for us, it will be enough, and ample, to transform our world and make it a place where God’s kingdom dwells.

Wanstead Christmas weather report

Wanstead’s new freelance weatherman, Scott Whitehead (who we wrote about a couple of weeks ago here), has been thinking about what all this unseasonal dampness could mean. He writes:

I have been checking past years’ pre-Christmas rainfall, for the purpose of this study the 7-day period from 16th to 22nd inclusive.
This year is third wettest, beaten only by 1995 and 1989. So what does this mean for weather in the new year? Not much, probably, for anyone not a fan of weather forecasting by pattern matching. However, it is interesting to note the weather that followed these two wet Christmas periods… Both were very different.

Things turned very cold at the end of January / beginning of February 1996 – with an ‘ice day’ being recorded on January 26. Snowfall during the cold spell wasn’t really anything to write home about.

Anyone who follows the weather will remember that in January 1990 occured the devastating Burns’ Day storm that was responsible for the death of 97 people across the UK. The month as a whole, and February, was virtually frost free, stormy and very mild – positively balmy at times.

These two polar opposites just go to show that you forecast by pattern matching at your peril – though 1996 gives any coldies reading this hope for the new year.

You can follow Scott on Twitter, where he is @wanstead_meteo or at www.wansteadweather.co.uk

A Christmas story for Wanstead

A Christmas story for Wanstead imagineered by Geo. C Parker Esq

Marley was dead, to begin with. There is no doubt whatever about that. George C Parker and he were partners for I don’t know how many years.

The door of Parker’s property agency was open that he might keep an eye on his clerk. “A Merry Christmas Uncle!” cried a cheerful voice from the street. It was Parker’s nephew, a do-gooding blogger with no prospects to speak of.

“Bah!” said Parker. “Humbug! This place would be best served with more hard working property developers and less fools like this!”

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That night the first phantom visited Parker in his quarters. “I wear the chain I forged in life” said the ghoul. The mortified George C trembled more and more.

“Rise and walk with me!” impelled the spirit. “I am the ghost of Christmas past”. As the words were spoken they passed through the wall into an open High Street, with ever-green fields on either side.

“Good heaven!” said Parker. “This is long ago! I was a young property developer here! There are the nobly-spaced houses and villas we put up, over there the Hospital, and the Police Station! Look at all the happy and proud residents going about their business in the splendour, the proud chestnuts and wide arcades”.

“You remember?” asked the spirit. “Strange to have forgotten for so many years ..”

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The clock on Parker’s bedroom wall struck, heralding a different apparition at his bedside. Tremulously the erstwhile tycoon asked, “What will you show me now?” The ghost raised a finger to his lips as they passed once more through the bricks and mortar.

As the haze cleared, Parker did not watch his step so walked straight into a sign advertising new parking restrictions. He said a bad word and then bumped into a builder’s skip outside yet another garden-grabbing development. Approaching the High Street he saw his nephew bustling out of the door of A.G. Dennis in great cheer having reserved the Christmas turkey, en route for a major sprout purchase at Harveys nearby. “Are there no Tesco Metros?” breathed Parker? “Are there no Sainsbury’s locals? And where are the extra parking meters? We’ll have need of them when new flats are built right next door to my imbecile nephew’s place. His words were lost as the scene dissolved into an ethereal mist.

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The final Phantom slowly, gravely, descended. Parker implored his beady eyes to stop the deceit; his curdled breath formed a misty penance in the chill. No word was uttered as Parker was bade to follow. “Spirit!” cried Parker, looking around him and noting the bad developments, parking chaos, gaudy neon, the PVC window-frames, and Closed Down notices,  “What the flip are we doing in Ilford?” Still the ghost did not speak. A bony finger arched towards the listing and fading sign marked “Wanstead Village”. “Good spirit!” pursued Parker breathlessly. “Assure me I can yet change these shadows  you have shown me, by an altered life?”

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Morning came. “I will live in the Past, Present and Future!” Parker repeated as he scrambled out of bed. He frisked into the High Street and sent the first urchin he met straight to the Orange Tree for fineries to deliver to his nephew. Passing Santa Fe and Coco, he collected a festive and fetching scarf and glove set for each of his neighbours children, and sent for bouquets from each of the florists. Skipping along the rest of the parade, he ordered all that was needed for a wonderful Christmas from his friendly local retailers, and then he returned to his garret to join the Wanstead Society and to write a long string of powerful representations to Redbridge about some of the more alarming recent developments in planning and parking matters. THE END?

Presents to buy in Wanstead. Yes, in Wanstead

giftlist2012Here is this year’s final Wanstead Gift List – our list of good presents which can be bought from Wanstead shops.
It’s been collated by Wansteadium and readers, and is our annual contribution to avoiding a Mayan apocalypse coming to our beloved Wanstead High Street. So all readers are encouraged to do their duty.

★ Amber drop earings for approx £35 from Keatings
★ A place on sewing course from Stitch
★ Family photo taken in one of Wanstead’s parks nicely presented in a silver photo frame (£10) from The Art Shop
★ Silver open heart necklace from The Orange Tree (£12) [Reader writes: “It was present to myself and I’ve had loads of compliments since buying it last week.”]
★ Wooden toys for toddlers, from the Pet Shop (Heads and Tails)20121216-215253.jpg
★ Cool iPhone-style cufflinks, Nicole’s
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★ Hipflasks, the Art Shop

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★ Diaries from Bennett’s newsagents

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★ And our top selection: In a week that the Cabinet decided placemats were an appropriate present for the Queen, there can be no better present than Wanstead-themed coasters. From the Art Shop.

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